Mandy Len Catron: Falling in love is the easy part

TED 2015
Mandy Len Catron: Falling in love is the easy part  (script)
I googled "To Fall in Love With Anyone, Do This. " and 36 questions also. Please enjoy.
Summary
Probably, you'll be disappointed a little bit after reading this talk, because she didn't say that there is a shortcut to stay in love. However, the article was published in the New York Times and became famous title of which is "To Fall in Love With Anyone, Do This. " Thus, the most important part is whether you can fall in love with someone or not by asking 36 questions. It really worked.
The speaker Mandy just wanted to say that you can fall in love with someone by this way, because she's experienced in a difficult breakup. In fact, those questions' goal was not to produce romantic love. It's called " sustained, escalating, reciprocal, personalistic self disclosure. " When you become better friends by this way, it really works. Regardless of the reasons, what many people want to know was that future of a romance, real love, sustainable love, whether it lasts or not and their guarantees. Falling in love is not the same thing as staying in love. Falling in love might be the easy part and feels amazing, but it's also terrifying and it doesn't have guarantees. However, this is the deal with love. You have the chance to make the choice to love someone yourself.
Words in this story
acquaintance / a person one knows slightly, but who is not a close friend.
spectacle / scene,
skeptical / dubious, doubtful