Helen Fisher 3: Technology hasn't changed love. Here’s why

                            

TED 2016

Helen Fisher 3: Technology hasn't changed love. Here’s why (transcript)

Summary

I didn’t know that the speaker, Helen Fisher, talked about love on the TED stage again. Yes, l must miss it because she took off her glasses, she looked beautiful and she was so different from previous.

In fact, l wanted to know how she was changed. Especially, it's related to love or there were other reasons there.

So we are more interested in what is related to love or what is affected by love than this title: technology hasn't changed love.

Then we assume that technology and our context can change all things. Of course, our lifestyles are completely changed and old thoughts are gone. There is a marriage revolution also.

It can give us various people thus we can't choose any or we are taking our time to love but meanwhile, we experienced a lot. However, she tells us that times change common sense are changed, but human nature “love” stays the same fundamentally.

an addition　💕💕

“ stable ambiguity” about love

The situation of your love is that to prolong not only the uncertainty of relationship with you but also the uncertainty of a breakup.

icing or simmering / a kind of holding your love that emphasizes the undefined nature of a relationship but at the same time gives you enough of a comforting consistency and enough freedom of the undefined boundaries.

ghosting / you disappear from this mass of text on the spot, and you don’t deal with the pain that you inflict on another, because you’re making it invisible even to yourself.