Artūrs Miksons·TEDxRiga The benefits of expressing your emotions (constructively)

Artūrs Miksons·TEDxRiga
The benefits of expressing your emotions (constructively)
Summary
When you have an emotional reaction, it’s never logical. It’s biology and illogical means that when somebody feels something, you can't explain it well, even if you try it but it won't be right.

In the story, it’s not that a girl wants many cookies but she only wants someone to be with and listen to her. By an appearing granny, it’s solid.
A crying baby didn’t want to sleep, be held, be changed a diaper, be fed milk. Just the baby was sad and want to be with parents or someone, so you can feel what a baby is feeling to just be with.
When the speaker feels that he doesn’t want to stand a stage, when his father had passed away, and when his patients ask him many questions, naturally emotions are expressing, however, it doesn’t have reasons, you can’t explain it correctly and no one understands you. However, somebody who is with you must feel you.

P.S. Is it the same that when I study English, I feel that I want my teacher to be with me?
Does it mean that people need compassion?

Words in this story
con·struc·tive·ly /adv/ in a way that has or is intended to have a useful or beneficial purpose